How to Announce You’re Expecting Through Surrogacy

Bringing a new life into this world is an exciting time for any family. When you finally get the news that your surrogate partner is pregnant and the baby is healthy, you’ll likely want to share your joy as soon as possible. As more parents use surrogacy to conceive, they’re looking for fun and creative ways to include their surrogates in their pregnancy announcements.

If you’ve never seen a surrogacy pregnancy announcement before, it can be challenging to decide what method is right for you. Continue reading for inspiration and tips on how to share your exciting news.

5 surrogacy pregnancy announcement ideas

There are many ways you can make a cute surrogacy announcement, and you can even pull inspiration from other families to come up with an idea that’s uniquely your own.

Here are just a few of our favorite ways of announcing surrogacy:

  1. Sit down for an intimate discussion: Sharing the news of your gestational surrogacy pregnancy in person is an excellent way to connect with your loved ones and answer any questions. Decide who you want to tell and schedule a time to talk. Choose a location that makes you comfortable, whether that’s your home, your favorite park, or a nice restaurant. The one-on-one intimate atmosphere will ease any tension and allow you to share the news with those you care about most.
  2. Create a photo or video announcement: Many people choose to announce their pregnancies with a photo or video announcement. As surrogacy is becoming more popular among families, people use this method to reveal their surrogates and announce the pregnancy. You can plan a photoshoot or create a video montage celebrating your journey and showcasing the expected delivery date of your bundle of joy. Including your surrogate in the announcement is an excellent way to honor and highlight her part in the process.
  3. Use sonogram features: Sonograms are an excellent way to announce a pregnancy. They’re easily identifiable and showcase your baby’s growth until the day they’re born. The focus is on the new life you and your surrogacy partner are bringing into this world, with special notes about the family and surrogate partner listed in the text below the image. You can choose to include as little or as much information as you want and send the sonogram announcement to your friends and family or post it online for everyone to see — the choice is yours.
  4. Host a surrogacy reveal party: Gender reveal parties have become a popular way to announce the sex of a child, and there are many creative ways to hold a reveal party. You can utilize this existing tradition for surrogate birth announcements, bringing your friends and family together to celebrate your journey. Depending on when you hold the party, you can even do a gender reveal at the same time to heighten the excitement.
  5. Wait until after the birth: You can choose to wait until after your child’s birth to announce the news to your friends and family. You could plan a photoshoot with your newborn and post the pictures with the birth time and weight. Depending on the comfort level of you and your surrogate, you can make a statement in the announcement to honor their contribution to your new family.


Tips for announcing your surrogacy pregnancy

How do you announce a surrogacy pregnancy? If this is your first time announcing a pregnancy, especially with a surrogate, the process can be confusing. You might not know what to include or when would be a good time to make the announcement.

Here are a few tips to help with the process:

  • Decide on a timeline: The first step is to decide when you want to share the news with your friends and family. Some parents want to share the news as soon as possible, while others prefer to wait until later. Some even wait until their child has arrived in the world to tell others. If you want to announce the pregnancy, doctors recommend waiting until 12 weeks, when the chance for a miscarriage is at its lowest.
  • Determine what you want to share: Every parent and surrogate will have their own comfort levels based on the information they’re willing to share. Be sure your surrogate is comfortable with the information you’re sharing, especially if you’re posting the news on social media. The surrogate partner is her own person and will want to share her part in the journey in her own time.
  • Honor the surrogacy partner: While it’s essential to respect the privacy of the surrogate partner, it’s also important to honor her in a way that she feels comfortable. Some parents will include information in the announcement thanking her for bringing your child into the world. The method you choose is up to you, and something simple can go a long way towards showing your appreciation.
  • Find inspiration online: There are many ways to announce your surrogacy pregnancy, and you’re not limited to the options found on any list. You can look online to see how others have shared the news with their family and friends, drawing inspiration from their stories to make something that’s uniquely your own.
  • Make the decision that’s right for you: At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong way to announce your surrogacy pregnancy. Some parents are more private and might choose to share little to no information, while others are comfortable shouting the news from the rooftops. What matters is that you’re making the right decision for yourself and your family.

Remember that it’s unnecessary to include the surrogate partner in your birth announcement. There’s no pressure to share this information, and there are other ways to express your gratitude to the surrogate partner. You can share the exciting news in a way that makes you and your family most comfortable.

Start your surrogacy journey with Creative Family Connections

Deciding to start a family and bring a new life into the world is a fulfilling and exciting experience. If you’re considering surrogacy to foster new life and expand your family, look no further than Creative Family Connections. We’ve been surrogacy experts since 2001 and have plenty of experience helping families through their surrogacy journeys.

We save families time by arranging travel, paperwork, and appointments. We provide detailed guidance through every step and do our best to offer support before you even know to ask for it. Our goal is to make every surrogacy journey as stress-free as possible, pairing you with the right match and handling the legal paperwork.

If you’re ready to get started on your surrogacy journey, contact us today to learn more about our services.

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