- ASRM guidelines allow for a surrogate to be up to 45-years-old. However, most IVF clinics require that a first-time surrogate deliver before she turns 44.
Gestational surrogate requirements at Creative Family Connections:
A gestational surrogate is a woman who carries a pregnancy for another person or couple who intend to parent the resulting child. A heterosexual couple may be unable to become biological parents for any number of medical reasons. For single intended parents and same-sex LGBTQ intended parents, an egg donor and/or sperm donor may be needed. A gestational surrogate does not have a genetic link to the baby because the embryo that undergoes gestation was made with an egg from a donor or the intended mother. A gestational surrogate’s partner (if applicable) also does not have a genetic link to the baby.
Going through the “surrogate mother” process means providing a couple or a single parent the amazing opportunity to have a baby. They would otherwise never be able to have a biological child of their own without a surrogate’s help. Being a surrogate is a rewarding and life-changing experience that requires careful thought, research, and planning. A “surrogate mother” is not the mother to the baby, but she is the “oven” who takes care of the baby as if it were her own. She helps intended parents become parents!
If you’re wondering if it is hard to be a surrogate and what the journey entails, you’re definitely not alone. Surrogacy is complicated! One of the benefits of working with a surrogacy agency is that you will have a team of experts helping you through each and every step of your surrogacy journey. What exactly are the requirements to be a surrogate? Read more to discover all you need to know about surrogate qualifications and how you can start the process.
Gestational surrogate requirements consist of three basic categories, including medical, emotional, and screening qualifications:
Physical health requirements ensure minimal risk to yourself and the baby. Of course, every surrogacy agency, like Creative Family Connections, and every IVF clinic has different guidelines and requirements to become a surrogate.
Every woman considering the path to surrogacy should be aware of the journey’s psychological and emotional components. When you become a surrogate, you will attend doctor’s appointments throughout your journey and, in most cases, commit to developing a close relationship with the intended parents.
While you juggle responsibilities with your everyday life and family, you will also experience hormonal changes and emotions associated with any pregnancy. A mental health professional who is specifically experienced with surrogacy journeys will explain what you can expect moving forward and help you prepare for the various emotional components in a surrogate pregnancy.
At Creative Family Connections, we are proud to work with an incredible group of healthy, educated, fun, and sincere women who decide to become surrogates. It takes a compassionate, exceptional person to become a surrogate. Our team has the honor of helping you give to another family in one of the most selfless and loving ways possible.
So long as you do not reside in a “red-light” state, your next step in starting the surrogacy process will be to contact a surrogacy professional or surrogacy agency. If you decide to work with an agency that will guide you on your journey, you can expect to start by filling out an application and several forms to confirm that you are eligible. A surrogacy professional will then speak with you about the process and answer any lingering questions you may have.
Before becoming a surrogate and undergoing the embryo transfer, there are several steps to take for a successful surrogacy journey. Assuming you decide to work with Creative Family Connections, you will meet your intended parents via videoconference with the help of a journey coordinator if you decide to work with an agency that hand holds through the process to guide you through this important first meeting! If everyone feels comfortable moving forward, you will be required to undergo psychological and medical screenings to confirm your readiness to become a “surrogate mother” and begin a surrogacy journey. Whenever the clinic’s process permits, Creative Family Connections prefers to complete psychological screenings before you meet your intended parents as part of the pre-screening process.
Before starting the medications for the cycling process of a surrogacy journey, you will complete the surrogacy contract. You will have your own, independent surrogacy attorney (paid for by the intended parents) to review the contract with you, negotiate terms with the intended parents’ attorney, and counsel you throughout your journey.
Are you hoping to become a surrogate and help a couple build their family through surrogacy? Seeing your intended parents or intended parent hold their baby or babies (in the case of a twin surrogate pregnancy) for the first time at the hospital or birthing center with your family and theirs is truly such a beautiful, miraculous moment. But finding that right surrogacy agency to help you on your surrogacy journey can be a roller coaster in and of itself. Meeting your intended parents for the first time right from the safety of your home is an amazing feeling. Not to worry, you’ll have a journey coordinator to help you with each and every step of your journey.
We are so grateful to the incredible women who feel that their own family is complete, have had easy pregnancies (and loved being pregnant!), want to change someone else’s lives to allow them to experience the joy of parenthood, and are willing to take on another pregnancy, fully aware of the fact that any pregnancy or surrogate pregnancy could be the last. The American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) has created countless resources for surrogacy professionals and intended parents, and guidelines for screening gestational surrogates. Surrogacy agencies and IVF clinics use these resources as just that, guidelines. In fact, many top surrogacy agencies, like us, Creative Family Connections, and IVF clinics impose even stricter requirements to help make a surrogacy journey as happy and healthy as possible.